When Parliament gets around to it, or before December 2006 (whichever comes first), South Africa will join the small group of countries which provide equal “marriage” rights to same-sex and opposite-sex couples. (The Netherlands, Belgium, Spain and Canada.)
In the government’s view, “marriage” is a contract between two people who love each other, and are committed to each other, very much– therefore; they feel they should receive additional practical and economic rights as well as additional responsibilities, especially for each other.
With that view in mind, it’s difficult to see how one can justify providing marriage only to different-sex couples. One has to perform a genital check to confirm that these people really love each other… rather primitive. Evidently the twelve Constitutional Court judges who presided over the deciding South African case felt the same way.
The ANC supported the Court’s decision, as did the DA. Actually, one gets the impression than neither party really cares – it doesn’t amount to too many votes either side of the issue. These are things Americans bother themselves with when they don’t want to think about the war.
The only (vaguely important) ones who did object (publicly, at least) were those stalwarts of progressive human rights development in sub-Saharan Africa – the African Christian Democratic Party and the Freedom Front Plus.
The VF+ had this to say:
”It is shocking that in a country where more than 70% of the population is Christian, the highest court in this country legalized gay-marriages. The view of the FF Plus is that a marriage is an institution of God solemnized between a man and a woman. The other religions in South Africa also reject the concept of gay-marriages.
Christians should take note that the highest norm of the current political order is the constitution with its core values and not the Bible as the Word of God. It should be realized that this decision of the Court of Appeal, according to which gay-marriages are now legal in South Africa, is a logical outcome of the ANC constitution with its gender-equality principle, which was amongst others, supported by the DA. This pronouncement has far-reaching consequences for South African law, as well as for communities.
This judgment was delivered by Judge of Appeal Edwin Cameron, a gay-rights activist, who has already admitted that he is HIV-positive.
An attempt to tar all Christian denominations with the VF’s brush, nay… ALL South African religions, an attempt to afford an ancient Jewish mythological text greater importance than our Constitution in our modern democracy, the use of “gender-equality” as if it were a bad thing, and an implied slur against HIV+ people. Wow. *Freedom* Front.
And the ACDP:
“The ACDP is in agreement with the views of the Marriage Alliance, consisting of some 70 denominations representing some 18 million people, that ‘no State or Court should seek to alter the traditional, and, from time immemorial, universal understanding of God-given marriage as heterosexual, and of course in terms of Christian understanding, also monogamous. We affirm that the traditional understanding of marriage is correct, that it is the God-given context for male/female bonding, mutual care, sexual intimacy and inter-dependent support. Then it is the God-given place for the procreation of children and the production of the next generation in the world...it is the proper, best, safest and most wonderful context and shelter for the nurturing and raising of children. Because marriage and the family antedates and precedes the state and its various organs, the state cannot change marriage but only recognise it.”
The common factor here is that “God” thing. These people don’t actually have a logical reason for opposing same-sex marriage – they do have a common imaginary “friend” (I use the term “friend” loosely), though. Somewhere along the bumpy ride South Africa has taken, these kids were sleeping at the back of the bus and dreaming about ghosts and people coming back from the dead.
Not that there’s anything wrong with that. Dream away. Just don’t come and try to tell me how to live my life according to your pre-1st Century CE diet, sexual health and fantasy books.
Something some significantly more astute Christians have hit upon is this: Why don’t we stop calling civil marriage “marriage”? Yes, let’s call it something else – like civil unions. “Marriage” would no longer be an official government term. It wouldn’t matter – everyone would still call each other husband and wife… or husband and husband… or wife and wife… or whatever.
Link.I’m inclined to think that it’s a damn good idea. Among other nations, the UK government has allowed gays to enter into civil partnerships, which have exactly the same rights as marriages – they just have a different name. Great… only why are you still calling the heterosexual version “marriage”?
Everyone is equal in the eyes of the law, religion is further amputated from government and everyone wins. Now if only all Christians (and their imaginary friends) thought that way…